Sadness

In the last week 3 women I know have lost their twins pregnancies. They were all in the first trimester, but it is such a loss for each of them. Two women are SMBC, like myself, and have had very long, hard roads to conception. One lost one twin a few weeks ago, and then the second this past week. The other had a few US only showing a single baby and then about two weeks ago...surprise...TWO! They also identified sub chorionic hemorrhages at that US which is what they think led to the miscarriage this past weekend. I had two of these hemorrhages with my twins and I guess I'm lucky they didn't turn into anything other than some minor bleeding.

As sad as the above is, it's even sadder that I know a fourth women who is pregnant with twins. She however, is an IV drug user, who has no job, is a total leach on the system and is one of the most self centered and rude people I know. I just don't understand a world that would take the twins from three potentially wonderful moms, but leaves this sorry excuse with hers.