I May Have a Problem...

In about 2 weeks, when I have my anatomy scan, if all is well I will be looking to unload my last 6 vials of my donor. I am doing this for several reasons - the money is needed, but also I need to remove any temptation I may have in a few years to have more. I cannot afford to have another nor is it fair to get pregnant again with as sick as I get. So...decision made.

Here's the problem. There were a few families who were interested in the vials while I was TTC. I told all of them that I would get back to them once I got pregnant. Well I guess two of them thought that meant they were theirs and are now asking how I want to go about selling the vials to them...YIKES! I don't want to piss either of them off and lets face it...while some people see these as vial, us parents see them as our future babies so I am going to be walking on some pretty thin ice.

Here are the perspective families.

Family One: Currently Mom A has two children with this donor.
She conceived the first two children with her partner. When I was TTC they wanted them for more children. Well when Mom A contacted me she mentioned that she had left her first partner, had met a new woman and they had been married in Vegas - WTF!? How can all of that happen in 6 months? But anyway, this is the story. Mom A wants another baby with new wife but same donor.

Family Two: Currently No Children with this Donor...but very confusing story...so try and keep up :)
Mom A was with Mom B and had a baby (with my donor). When baby was one, mom A kicked mom B out and no longer allowed her contact with the baby. This devastated mom B and she eventually found me because I run an online group for my donors recipients. So now mom B is with mom C and they want to have babies with my donor. I guess this is mom B's way of gaining the lost child she had with mom A. So now mom B and mom C want to both eventually become pregnant with my donors babies.

So...what in hell do I do? I'm hoping one backs out because of the financial cost...but who the hell knows. Both people want to start new families. And as much as I shouldn't see it this way, I do see these vials as children, in fact, my children's future half-siblings. Ugh...the difficulty!